Day 28 | Gallant in Relationships

How To Love Your Wife

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her.” Ephesians 5:25

Love is expressed in action. Consider how women have responded when asked to complete this sentence: “I wish my husband would love me by…”

  • By listening to me.
  • By taking my ‘petty problems’ seriously.
  • By communicating more openly with me.
  • By noticing me more – not just when he wants sex.
  • By saying ‘thank you’ for the things I do.
  • By being interested in my life…at least acting like you’re interested.
  • By showing affection when other people are around.
  • By sharing his goals and values with me; talking his business over with me.
  • By remembering me with little gifts or just planning an evening out.
  • By taking me out without the kids more – maybe just for a ride.
  • By including me in the things he does.
  • By trying to understand me.
  • By getting involved with things I enjoy doing.
  • By just holding me in his arms and talking to me.
  • By being tender and using kind, tender words.
  • By helping in the discipline of the children.
  • By saying little words of caring, compliments, and appreciation.
  • By accepting me just as I am.
  • By spending more time with the family.
  • By making me feel like a woman.


Express your love toward your wife today in one of the preceding ways.


  1. Brandon on November 18, 2020 at 8:51 am

    I do a lot of these things, but do not know if anything registers. Will keep doing better at them.

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