Posts by Neil

In the heart of every man lies a divine blueprint, a purpose etched by the Creator Himself. From the dawn of time, men have been called to carry burdens—not as a punishment, but as a privilege. The Bible reveals this truth through the lives of men like Abraham, Moses, David, and Jesus Himself, who bore…

It was the most unlikely training ground for good manners – the wrestling room. Coach Ken Praytor’s athletic philosophy focused as much on how we conducted ourselves off the wrestling mat as it did on how we conducted ourselves during our matches. He had rules of conduct. It didn’t matter how capable we were as…

Life is a battlefield, and the mind is its fiercest arena. To navigate the chaos of existence, you must forge a mindset that is resolute, purposeful, and grounded in truth. As Dr. Jordan Peterson emphasizes, “You are not what you are; you are what you could be.” Inspired by this call to transcend our limitations,…

Dreams are God-given seeds planted in your heart, visions of purpose that propel you toward a life of impact. Yet, as you pursue these dreams, threats arise—subtle and overt forces that seek to derail your destiny. The Bible warns us to be vigilant, for “the thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy” (John…

Modern society often paints fatherhood as a burden—a sideline role that competes with career, hobbies, or personal freedom. The world whispers lies: “You’ll lose yourself,” “It’s too much responsibility,” or “You’re not cut out for it.” But as men of God, we must reject these deceptions. Fatherhood is not a sacrifice of your purpose; it…

Words are not mere sounds we utter; they are the currency of our influence, the tools of our legacy, and the reflection of our character. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 18:21, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” As men, our words…

Marriage is a sacred covenant, a divine institution designed by God to reflect His love and unity. As husbands, we are called to love our wives as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25), and one of the most powerful ways to fulfill this calling is through prayer. Praying for your wife not only strengthens her…

Viktor Frankl, a Holocaust survivor and psychiatrist, profoundly stated, “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” This truth echoes the heart of Scripture, calling men to embrace change as a divine opportunity to grow into the leaders, husbands, and fathers God designed them to be. When…

The “Scheme of the Question” is a subtle yet powerful tactic of manipulation rooted in questioning the truth, authority, or identity of its target. This strategy, employed by the serpent in the Garden of Eden, Satan in the temptation of Jesus, and the Pharisees in their challenges to Jesus, reveals a consistent pattern of sowing…

In a world that often feels chaotic and fragmented, the family remains God’s chosen vessel for love, growth, and legacy. As men, we are called to lead our families with strength, humility, and unwavering faith, reflecting the heart of Christ, the ultimate servant leader. Proverbs 24:3-4 reminds us, “By wisdom a house is built, and…