Posts by Neil

Modern society often paints fatherhood as a burden—a sideline role that competes with career, hobbies, or personal freedom. The world whispers lies: “You’ll lose yourself,” “It’s too much responsibility,” or “You’re not cut out for it.” But as men of God, we must reject these deceptions. Fatherhood is not a sacrifice of your purpose; it…

Words are not mere sounds we utter; they are the currency of our influence, the tools of our legacy, and the reflection of our character. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 18:21, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” As men, our words…

Marriage is a sacred covenant, a divine institution designed by God to reflect His love and unity. As husbands, we are called to love our wives as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25), and one of the most powerful ways to fulfill this calling is through prayer. Praying for your wife not only strengthens her…

Viktor Frankl, a Holocaust survivor and psychiatrist, profoundly stated, “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” This truth echoes the heart of Scripture, calling men to embrace change as a divine opportunity to grow into the leaders, husbands, and fathers God designed them to be. When…

The “Scheme of the Question” is a subtle yet powerful tactic of manipulation rooted in questioning the truth, authority, or identity of its target. This strategy, employed by the serpent in the Garden of Eden, Satan in the temptation of Jesus, and the Pharisees in their challenges to Jesus, reveals a consistent pattern of sowing…

In a world that often feels chaotic and fragmented, the family remains God’s chosen vessel for love, growth, and legacy. As men, we are called to lead our families with strength, humility, and unwavering faith, reflecting the heart of Christ, the ultimate servant leader. Proverbs 24:3-4 reminds us, “By wisdom a house is built, and…

In the heart of every man lies helpful hints of a vision—a divine spark that calls him to rise above the mundane and pursue a life of eternal significance. The Bible declares, “Where there is no vision, the people perish” (Proverbs 29:18, KJV). Vision is not a fleeting dream or a wishful thought; it is…

Stress is a relentless adversary. It creeps into our lives through demanding schedules, fractured relationships, and the weight of expectations—both from others and ourselves. For men striving to live with purpose, stress can feel like a Goliath, taunting us to crumble. Yet, the Bible offers timeless wisdom to not just endure stress but to conquer…

Marriage is a divine tapestry, woven with purpose and beauty by the hands of our Creator. In the Garden of Eden, God crafted man and woman to be more than mere partners—they were designed to complement and complement one another in a sacred union. As husbands, our calling is to embrace the role of a…

“It was an old custom during the Feast for the governor to pardon a single prisoner named by the crowd. At the time, they had the infamous Jesus Barabbas in prison. With the crowd before him, Pilate said, “Which prisoner do you want me to pardon: Jesus Barabbas, or Jesus the so-called Christ?” Pilate knew…