7 Meaningful Touches Every Husband Should Use to Reach for His Wife
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I recently called to check on my father, who wasn’t feeling well. After talking for a few minutes, I asked about his wife (not my mother). They’ve enjoyed a wonderful relationship for 45 years of marriage. He said, “She is doing well, sitting here holding my hand.”
I must admit, I thought of that as a Hallmark moment – a seasoned couple sitting in their cabin on a mountain in Arkansas, still in love and holding hands.
The human touch has amazingly powerful benefits for both parties—physically, emotionally, physiologically, and even spiritually. Studies have revealed innumerable benefits. Unfortunately, some men have allowed their hands to withdraw from reaching for their wives. Here are seven meaningful touches every husband should use to reach for his wife.
1. Touch Your Wife by Reaching for Her First Thing in the Morning.
It may be a gentle pat as you get out of bed or a hug when you first see each other but reach for her before you get busy with the day.
2. Touch Your Wife by Texting or a Quick Phone Call
Throughout the day, a text or quick phone call is an excellent touch of affection that will go a long way in letting her know she is on your mind. A simple “I love you.” or “Just thinking about you and looking forward to the evening.”
3. Touch Your Wife by Writing a Note the Old-fashioned Way.
We’re so tech-savvy that sometimes an old-fashioned approach is more meaningful.
4. Touch Your Wife with Her Love Language
Whether your wife loves flowers, chocolate, or shoes, sending these on “regular” days rather than typical celebration days will be a tremendous touch.
5. Touch Your Wife with a Good Attitude and Spirit When You Get Home
Save some energy so you can give your wife special attention when you return home. Embrace her warmly and greet her when you first enter the home.
6. Touch Your Wife by Reaching for Her During the Day
Hold her hand randomly – driving, walking, or just sitting at home.
7. Touch Your Wife with Non-sexual Affection.
Give her a back rub. Give her hugs. Dance with her. Show her attention.
Bonus Touch
I want to add one more to the list that is a real standout, and it will take your relationship to another dimension.
Pray with and about her. Pray for her dreams while praying in agreement with her. This may take you out of your comfort zone, but I promise this will be a game changer in your spiritual walk and leadership with your wife and family.
Reach out and touch your wife. The benefits are immeasurable.
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