Field Guide
What Does the Bible Say About Being a Man?
The world’s confused about manhood—caught between toxic swagger and timid passivity. But the Bible cuts through the noise with a clear, bold vision. God didn’t make men to drift; He wired us for purpose. At FivestarMan, we frame this through five passions—adventurous, entrepreneurial, gallant, faithful, and philanthropic—each echoing Scripture’s call. So, what does the Bible…
Read MoreHow to Start an Effective Men’s Ministry
Men are searching for purpose. In a world that often confuses or dilutes what it means to be a man, the church has a unique opportunity to call men back to God’s original design. Starting an effective men’s ministry isn’t about flashy programs or endless meetings—it’s about igniting the deep purposes within every man and…
Read MoreIs Christianity Masculine? It Should Be!
Christianity has a reputation problem. Too often, it’s seen as soft—gentle tunes, polite sermons, and a Jesus who feels more like a buddy than a King. That’s not the faith of Scripture. The Bible pulses with a rugged, muscular Christianity—men like David, Joshua, and Paul who lived bold and fierce for God. Jesus Himself was…
Read MoreThe Key to Identity
In a world obsessed with labels—career, status, achievements—many of us wrestle with a deeper question: Who am I, really? The answer isn’t found in mirrors or resumes, but in Christ. Jesus said in John 14:9, “If you have seen me, you have seen the Father.” His identity was rooted in perfect unity with God. Likewise,…
Read MoreHow to Find a Christian Wife
As a Christian man, the pursuit of a wife isn’t just about finding a companion—it’s about discovering a partner who shares your faith, sharpens your purpose, and walks with you toward eternity. Scripture calls us to be intentional, courageous, and gallant in this journey. Proverbs 18:22 declares, “He who finds a wife finds a good…
Read MoreDoes God Want Me Successful? 5 Keys to Unlock Your Divine Potential
As men, we often wrestle with a nagging question: Does God want me to succeed? The world bombards us with mixed messages—some say success is selfish, others that it’s the ultimate goal. But what does God say? In my book, Fivestarman: The Five Passions of Authentic Manhood, I dive into the Entrepreneurial Drive, one of…
Read MoreFive Keys to Save Your Marriage
Gentlemen, marriage is under attack. Divorce rates soar, families fracture, and men often feel powerless to stop the slide. But God has given us a blueprint for victory in Ephesians 5:23-31, where Paul writes: “For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church… Husbands, love your wives,…
Read MoreYoung Men Rising: Why Young Men Are Leading the Way to Resurrect Biblical/Authentic Manhood
In a world drifting from its spiritual moorings, a quiet revolution is stirring. Young men—sons, brothers, and future fathers—are stepping up to reclaim a vision of manhood rooted in biblical truth and authentic purpose. This isn’t about bravado or cultural stereotypes; it’s about courage, integrity, and a calling to reflect God’s design. Here are five…
Read More5 Keys to Being a Great Girl Dad
Raising daughters is a sacred calling, a privilege bestowed upon men to shape the next generation of women—strong, virtuous, and full of purpose. As a Girl Dad, you’re not just a provider or protector; you’re a mentor, a model, and a mirror reflecting God’s love. Drawing from Biblical wisdom and the FivestarMan framework—five purposes of…
Read MoreThe Threat of Passivity: Reclaiming Authentic Manhood in an Anti-Man Culture
In a world increasingly hostile to masculinity, men face a subtle yet insidious threat: passivity. Scripture calls men to a higher standard—courageous, purposeful, and steadfast—yet today’s culture often celebrates a weak, passive masculinity that leaves men adrift. Inspired by biblical truth and from my book, Leave the Cave; I want to contrast authentic manhood with the…
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