How to Resurrect Authentic Manhood in Your Life

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In my book, Fivestarman: The Five Passions of Authentic Manhood, I’ve laid out a roadmap for men to reclaim the deep, God-given purpose coursing through their veins. After years of ministering to men, consulting with businesses, and wrestling with my own journey, I’ve identified five passions that define what it means to be an authentic…

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How Do I Overcome Temptation and Live a Life of Purity?

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Living a life of purity as a Christian man in a world full of temptation is a battle, but Scripture assures us that God equips us for victory. From lust to pride, temptations threaten to derail our walk with Christ, yet the Bible offers practical and spiritual strategies to overcome them. Here are five biblical…

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How Do I Balance Work, Faith, and Family as a Christian Man?

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Juggling the demands of work, faith, and family can feel overwhelming for a Christian man, but Scripture offers a roadmap to navigate these responsibilities with purpose and peace. God doesn’t call us to compartmentalize our lives but to integrate them under His lordship. Here are five biblical principles to help you find balance and honor…

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7 Meaningful Touches Every Husband Should Use to Reach for His Wife

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This article was initially published and syndicated worldwide to hundreds of outlets. It was shared over 1.5 million times. I recently called to check on my father, who wasn’t feeling well. After talking for a few minutes, I asked about his wife (not my mother). They’ve enjoyed a wonderful relationship for 45 years of marriage.…

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7 Meaningful Touches Your Husband is Waiting For

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I don’t often post articles for women; however, this article was initially published and syndicated to hundreds of outlets worldwide. It’s easy to let distance creep into a marriage—maybe because of his rough edges or guarded emotions. But now’s the perfect time to bridge that gap. Your touch can soften his heart and remind him…

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Build a Hedge of Protection Around Your Marriage

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Marriage faces a formidable adversary—an insidious force bent on destroying the sacred bond between you and your wife. Every divine blessing from God is challenged by Satan, who despises unity, truth, and harmony. He will stop at nothing to fracture your marriage, knowing that “where two agree on earth concerning anything, the Spirit of God…

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5 Keys to Get Rid of Bitterness

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Bitterness is a silent poison that festers deep within the soul, often born from swallowing life’s unpleasant, undesirable, or tragic moments. Hebrews 12:14-15 warns, “Make every effort to live in peace with all men and to be holy; without holiness, no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one misses the grace…

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What Is My Role as a Man in the Church?

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As a Christian man, your role in the church extends beyond attendance—it’s a call to actively reflect Christ’s love, leadership, strength, and servant-leadership. Scripture provides clear guidance on how men can contribute to the body of believers, strengthening the church and glorifying God. Here are five key roles, each rooted in biblical truth, to help…

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Now is the Time to Rethink Men’s Ministry

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Two phrases are irrelevant to our present culture for men: Men’s Ministry and Bible Study.  Don’t get me wrong. I understand these phrases. You probably do, too. However, if you want to limit the effectiveness of reaching men within your church, keep using these terms—they tend to repel men outside a tiny group. Not to…

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Five Reasons Why Inconsistency is the Death to Momentum

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Inconsistency can be seen as a stumbling block that hinders progress and momentum in one’s spiritual life, relationships, and purpose. Here are five reasons why inconsistency can lead to the “death” of momentum, grounded in biblical principles: 1. Inconsistency Undermines Faithfulness Scripture emphasizes the value of steadfastness: “Let us hold fast the confession of our hope…

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