Field Guide
How to Be a Man Who Stays When Your Father Left
When I was five years old, my father walked out the door and never returned. I can still feel the sting of that moment—the confusion, the silence that settled over our home, the ache of wondering why I wasn’t enough to make him stay. For years, that abandonment shaped how I saw myself and the…
Read MoreCan a Man Be Confident Without Being Arrogant
In a culture that often mistakes arrogance for strength, the Christian man has a higher calling: confidence rooted in Christ, not self. Scripture paints a vivid contrast between the proud, who stumble under their own weight, and the faithful, who stand firm in God’s truth. As men of faith—young or seasoned—we’re called to embody a…
Read MoreMan: Made in the Image of God
From the very first pages of Scripture, we encounter a profound truth that sets humanity apart from all creation: “Then God said, ‘Let us make man in our image, after our likeness’” (Genesis 1:26, ESV). This declaration isn’t just a poetic flourish—it’s the cornerstone of our identity, purpose, and destiny. But what does it mean…
Read MoreNavigating Career and Calling: Unleashing Your Entrepreneurial Drive
Gentlemen, let’s get real for a moment. You’ve got a fire in your gut—an Entrepreneurial Drive that wakes you up in the morning, pushing you to build, create, and conquer. It’s that authentic masculine urge to leave a mark on this world. But here’s the question: Is that drive just for your career, or is…
Read MoreHow to Make Hard Choices
Life is not easy. The notion that it should be is a modern myth, a fleeting whisper that evaporates under the weight of reality. From the moment humanity fell in the Garden, struggle became our inheritance. Yet within that struggle lies a profound truth: we have a choice. Not a choice to avoid hardship—such a…
Read MoreHow to Get Over Abandonment Syndrome
Abandonment cuts deep. Whether it’s a parent walking away, a spouse breaking vows, or a friend turning their back, the wound of rejection can linger, shaping how we see ourselves and the world. Abandonment Syndrome is a pervasive sense of unworthiness that saps a man’s strength and stifles a man’s God-given passions. But Scripture offers…
Read MoreHusbandry: How to Be a Man in Marriage
Marriage is a divine masterpiece, a sacred covenant where a man and a woman are perfectly designed to complement and compliment one another. At FivestarMan, we believe God wired men with five passions—adventure, entrepreneurship, gallantry, faithfulness, and philanthropy—to reflect His image. In the context of marriage, these passions find their fullest expression in husbandry—the art…
Read MoreWhat Makes a Man a Champion?
What does it take to become a champion? Not just a fleeting victor in the eyes of the world, but a man of enduring purpose, forged by the hand of God? The Bible offers a blueprint for this journey, and at its heart is a Hebrew word that unveils the essence of authentic manhood: Iysh.…
Read MorePursue Your Destiny: 5 Steps to Get Where You Are Going
Every man carries a longing deep within—a call to something greater, a destiny etched into his soul by the Creator Himself. The Bible declares in Jeremiah 29:11, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.” God…
Read MoreThe Value of Friends for Men
In a world that often pressures men to stand alone, to grit their teeth and bear the weight of life in silence, the Bible offers a countercultural truth: authentic manhood thrives in the company of godly friends. The story of David and Jonathan, woven through the pages of 1 Samuel, stands as a timeless testament…
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