Field Guide

As men, we often wrestle with a nagging question: Does God want me to succeed? The world bombards us with mixed messages—some say success is selfish, others that it’s the ultimate goal. But what does God say? In my book, Fivestarman: The Five Passions of Authentic Manhood, I dive into the Entrepreneurial Drive, one of…

Gentlemen, marriage is under attack. Divorce rates soar, families fracture, and men often feel powerless to stop the slide. But God has given us a blueprint for victory in Ephesians 5:23-31, where Paul writes: “For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church… Husbands, love your wives,…

In a world drifting from its spiritual moorings, a quiet revolution is stirring. Young men—sons, brothers, and future fathers—are stepping up to reclaim a vision of manhood rooted in biblical truth and authentic purpose. This isn’t about bravado or cultural stereotypes; it’s about courage, integrity, and a calling to reflect God’s design. Here are five…

Raising daughters is a sacred calling, a privilege bestowed upon men to shape the next generation of women—strong, virtuous, and full of purpose. As a Girl Dad, you’re not just a provider or protector; you’re a mentor, a model, and a mirror reflecting God’s love. Drawing from Biblical wisdom and the FivestarMan framework—five purposes of…

In a world increasingly hostile to masculinity, men face a subtle yet insidious threat: passivity. Scripture calls men to a higher standard—courageous, purposeful, and steadfast—yet today’s culture often celebrates a weak, passive masculinity that leaves men adrift. Inspired by biblical truth and from my book, Leave the Cave; I want to contrast authentic manhood with the…

Are Christian men called to fight? Yes—but not necessarily with fists or weapons of this world. Our fight is spiritual warfare in prayer, a battle waged on our knees that echoes into the heavens. The victories you seek—over temptation, hardship, or despair—are not won by earthly might alone; they’re secured in the spiritual realm first.…

In Acts 10:28, Peter declares, “You know it’s forbidden for a Jewish man to associate with or visit a foreigner, but God has shown me that I must not call any person impure or unclean.” This moment—when God shatters Peter’s preconceptions through a vision of a sheet descending from heaven—changed the trajectory of the Gospel.…

For over a decade, I’ve poured my heart into encouraging, engaging, and empowering men to step into Biblical/Authentic manhood. Through my work with FivestarMan.com, I’ve witnessed the struggles men face in a culture increasingly hostile to masculinity. My latest book, Leave the Cave, drives home a truth I’ve seen play out time and again: you…

Throughout Scripture, we see the transformative power of a father’s blessing. From the earliest pages of Genesis to Jesus’s teachings, speaking life, identity, and purpose over one’s children carries divine weight. It’s not merely words—a sacred impartation that aligns with God’s design for family and legacy. In my book, Speaking the Father’s Blessing, I include…

In the journey of life, God has entrusted us with remarkable resources—currencies, if you will—that shape who we are and how we impact the world. The Bible reveals that we are stewards of divine gifts, called to invest them wisely for His glory and the good of others. I believe we each possess five distinct…