Field Guide
A Man Without Vision Always Returns to His Past
The Proverb stings with truth: “A dog always returns to its vomit.” It’s a raw, unflinching image of what happens when we lack intentional direction. As the saying goes, a man without a vision will always return to his past. Without a clear focus on what lies ahead, we’re doomed to revisit old messes—broken habits,…
Read MoreCan You Declutter Your Spiritual Life by Cleaning Your Closet?
The biblical principle that what you do in private ultimately promotes you in public is a timeless truth that echoes through Scripture and life. Jesus taught in Matthew 6:6, “But when you pray, go into your room, close the door, and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is…
Read MoreThe Profound Influence of a Father: Five Biblical Benefits for Sons
The Bible provides timeless wisdom about the essential role a father plays in shaping his children, particularly his sons. A father’s influence extends far beyond mere provision—it molds a son’s spiritual life, character, identity, practical skills, and even his legacy. This article explores five biblical benefits of a father’s influence on his sons, supported by…
Read MoreHow to Turn Your Daily Commute into Communion
In the hustle of modern life, the daily commute often feels like a necessary evil—a stretch of time spent battling traffic, crowded trains, or the monotony of routine. The commute often seems to interrupt your purposes or be a waste of time. Yet, what if this time could be transformed into something sacred, a space…
Read MoreFive Disciplines for Men’s Private Devotions
Men, your private time with God is a battleground for your soul. Scripture calls you to stand firm (1 Corinthians 16:13), and these five disciplines—grounded in the Word—will strengthen your faith: start with gratitude, read Proverbs for wisdom, plan to read the Bible, lift your hands in worship, and confess your faith while praying boldly.…
Read MoreHow to Become a Man Without Having a Father
Young man, I get it—growing up without a father leaves a void. I lived it myself, raised in a home where my mother’s husband wasn’t a mentor, just a housemate. Yet, here I stand, four decades married, leading FivestarMan, a movement for authentic manhood. Of course, we want a dad, but you can still become…
Read MoreHow to Raise Your Boy to Be a Man in a Fatherless Home
Raising a son without a father is daunting, but it’s one brimming with possibility. In my book, A Mother’s Guide to Raising a FivestarMan, I share insights from my fatherless upbringing to offer you five practical keys to shaping your boy into an authentic man—adventurous, entrepreneurial, gallant, faithful, and philanthropic. As a single mother, you…
Read MoreHow Can I Make My House a Home?
Proverbs 24:3-4 offers a blueprint for every Christian man: “By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.” A house isn’t just brick and mortar—it’s a living space that reflects God’s design when infused with the right atmosphere. Inspired by the…
Read MoreHow Can I Find Purpose in My Life?
As a Christian man, the quest for purpose stirs deep within—a longing to live a life that matters. Proverbs 20:5 offers profound wisdom: “The purpose in a man’s heart is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out.” Your purpose isn’t shallow or fleeting; it’s buried in the depths of your…
Read MoreFive Keys to Deal with Anger and Stress as a Christian Man
Anger and stress are relentless foes for any man, but as a Christian, you’re called to wield them with wisdom, not let them wield you. Proverbs 27:4 warns, “Anger is cruel and fury overwhelming, but who can stand before jealousy?” Left unchecked, these emotions carve deep wounds in the soul, yet Scripture offers a path…
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