A Man Without Vision Always Returns to His Past

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The Proverb stings with truth: “A dog always returns to its vomit.” It’s a raw, unflinching image of what happens when we lack intentional direction. As the saying goes, a man without a vision will always return to his past. Without a clear focus on what lies ahead, we’re doomed to revisit old messes—broken habits,…

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Can You Declutter Your Spiritual Life by Cleaning Your Closet?

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The biblical principle that what you do in private ultimately promotes you in public is a timeless truth that echoes through Scripture and life. Jesus taught in Matthew 6:6, “But when you pray, go into your room, close the door, and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is…

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The Profound Influence of a Father: Five Biblical Benefits for Sons

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The Bible provides timeless wisdom about the essential role a father plays in shaping his children, particularly his sons. A father’s influence extends far beyond mere provision—it molds a son’s spiritual life, character, identity, practical skills, and even his legacy. This article explores five biblical benefits of a father’s influence on his sons, supported by…

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How to Turn Your Daily Commute into Communion

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In the hustle of modern life, the daily commute often feels like a necessary evil—a stretch of time spent battling traffic, crowded trains, or the monotony of routine. The commute often seems to interrupt your purposes or be a waste of time. Yet, what if this time could be transformed into something sacred, a space…

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Five Disciplines for Men’s Private Devotions

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Men, your private time with God is a battleground for your soul. Scripture calls you to stand firm (1 Corinthians 16:13), and these five disciplines—grounded in the Word—will strengthen your faith: start with gratitude, read Proverbs for wisdom, plan to read the Bible, lift your hands in worship, and confess your faith while praying boldly.…

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How to Become a Man Without Having a Father

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Young man, I get it—growing up without a father leaves a void. I lived it myself, raised in a home where my mother’s husband wasn’t a mentor, just a housemate. Yet, here I stand, four decades married, leading FivestarMan, a movement for authentic manhood. Of course, we want a dad, but you can still become…

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How to Raise Your Boy to Be a Man in a Fatherless Home

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Raising a son without a father is daunting, but it’s one brimming with possibility. In my book, A Mother’s Guide to Raising a FivestarMan, I share insights from my fatherless upbringing to offer you five practical keys to shaping your boy into an authentic man—adventurous, entrepreneurial, gallant, faithful, and philanthropic. As a single mother, you…

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How Can I Make My House a Home?

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Proverbs 24:3-4 offers a blueprint for every Christian man: “By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.” A house isn’t just brick and mortar—it’s a living space that reflects God’s design when infused with the right atmosphere. Inspired by the…

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How Can I Find Purpose in My Life?

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As a Christian man, the quest for purpose stirs deep within—a longing to live a life that matters. Proverbs 20:5 offers profound wisdom: “The purpose in a man’s heart is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out.” Your purpose isn’t shallow or fleeting; it’s buried in the depths of your…

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Five Keys to Deal with Anger and Stress as a Christian Man

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Anger and stress are relentless foes for any man, but as a Christian, you’re called to wield them with wisdom, not let them wield you. Proverbs 27:4 warns, “Anger is cruel and fury overwhelming, but who can stand before jealousy?” Left unchecked, these emotions carve deep wounds in the soul, yet Scripture offers a path…

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